To keep on learning it is super essential to analyse the way your communicate in a coaching session. Did you know that Michael Jackson would...
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Communicate cleanly - COACHING SKILLS - ARTICLE
As promised, here is a deeper explanation of what communicating cleanly means. Communicating cleanly means: Making whole complete sentences ...
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One of the reasons you train is because of how it makes you feel on a biochemical level - TIP
Why do we exercise? Some exercise for the health benefits. Some exercise to maintain a great appearance. Some are in it for mood elevation, ...
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NASDAQ II - How to get into direct access trading - TIP
direct access trading - limit your risks around 1600 trading paper big brokers made us lose sight created a veil of mystic they were not tru...
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He's doing it again! - Why doesn't he listen? - TIP
If you agreed on something and he's still crossing the line, give him some space and time to integrate this new behavior. Sometimes it t...
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We just had a very constructive chat 2 days ago - Something new bothers me - Should I bring it up? - TIP
If you already had a constructive discussion just a couple days ago, wait al least one to two weeks before you have another boundaries discu...
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How to have a constructive chat on relationship boundaries with him - TIP
One of the best ways to strengthen you couple is to find out EXACTLY what is ok and what is not in your relationship. You will often uncover...
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MIRROR TACTICS! - Do EXACTLY what he does instead of going after him - ARTICLE
I call these "Mirror tactics". Suppose that in your opinion, he's too flirty with a girl at a social event. Instead of going a...
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Call me when you need me instead of unloading your insecurities on him - ARTICLE
Once you start working with these jealousy files you will see that most of the strategies to handle the situations you face are already writ...
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How to use your protective force rather than your controlling one - ARTICLE
You see positive expressions of protective power all the time in society! It shows up when: A boss gives you space to be creative at your jo...
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Don't use your controlling power to limit him - ARTICLE
If you are a woman who carries lots of power with her. If professionally and materially, you have a VERY good base and you are in charge of ...
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When you challenge his sexiness, you attack what got you attracted to him in the first place - ARTICLE
A man's happiness is VERY precious. When I interview women on this topic, they often say that what got them attracted to their boyfriend...
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How men usually respond to pressure and demand from you - ARTICLE
If you say something like: "I don't want you to be so open with everyone when we go to social events! I don't like it! It makes...
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She's doing it again! - Why doesn't she listen? - TIP
If you agreed on something and she's still crossing the line, give her some space and time to integrate this new behavior. Sometimes it ...
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We just had a very constructive chat 2 days ago - Something new bothers me - Should I bring it up? - TIP
If you already had a constructive discussion just a couple days ago, wait al least one to two weeks before you have another boundaries discu...
Read More
How to have a constructive chat on relationship boundaries with her - TIP
One of the best ways to strengthen you couple is to find out EXACTLY what is ok and what is not in your relationship. You will often uncover...
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MIRROR TACTICS! - Do EXACTLY what she does instead of going after her - ARTICLE
I call these "Mirror tactics". Suppose that in your opinion, she's too flirty with a guy at a social event. Instead of going a...
Read More
Call me when you need me instead of unloading your insecurities on her - ARTICLE
Once you start working with these jealousy files you will see that most of the strategies to handle the situations you face are already writ...
Read More
How to use your protective force rather than your controlling one - ARTICLE
You see positive expressions of protective power all the time in society! It shows up when: A boss gives you space to be creative at your jo...
Read More
Don't use your controlling power to limit her - ARTICLE
If you are a guy who carries lots of power with him. If professionally and materially, you have a VERY good base and you are in charge of yo...
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When you challenge her sexiness, you attack what got you attracted to her in the first place - ARTICLE
A woman's happiness is VERY precious. When I interview guys on this topic, they often say that what got them attracted to their girlfrie...
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How women usually respond to pressure and demand from you - ARTICLE
If you say something like: "I don't want you to be so open with everyone when we go to social events! I don't like it! It makes...
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What dynamics are involved in taming your jealousy? - ARTICLE
Jealousy can be one of the most destructive forces in a relationship. Jealousy is originally a positive desire to protect your relationshi...
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Unjustified jealousy is a misuse of your controlling power - ARTICLE
Jealousy comes from a need to control your territory. You consider that your partner is “your territory” and you want to be in charge of i...
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Jealousy escalation and its destructive impact on your couple - ARTICLE
Jealousy and control are dead end cycles. The more you use it on your partner, the more your relationship dies. You are killing what you...
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Why jealousy is often the exact opposite to what you want - ARTICLE
Go back to the original idea of jealousy. The reason why nature created this instinctual response is to protect the relationship and famil...
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What works and what doesn’t with tackling jealousy - ARTICLE
When you try to shift an emotional reaction, you need a clear vision of what to do and why to do it. The solution needs to match on many l...
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Why tackling jealousy is a challenge - ARTICLE
Simply trying to suppress an emotional reaction usually does not work. What you need to do is use your energy and power in a different way...
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Why you want to do something about it before it is too late - ARTICLE
With the previous example, you realize one thing: if you don’t shift your behavior, this might lead to a break up. You don’t want to break...
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Jealousy triggers – Tackle them by making it VERY specific! - ARTICLE
Certain situations or circumstances are especially challenging for the man who tends to be jealous. It might be social events or the prese...
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