I believe in the unlimited power of the invisible!

I believe in the unlimited power of the invisible! I LOVE THE INVISIBLE! The magnificent play of energies that no one ever sees...

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How to keep my cool with the first guy I date after a break up - TIP

True! Going to a first date when you didn't do that for a long time can be quite disabling! Especially if your feel deeply triggered and...

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How to stay cool at a first date - TIP

Focus your mind on a few things - It's like you psych yourself up! Here is what you want to keep in mind: Be super confident - That'...

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First date! - My mind goes blank! - I'm thinking how beautiful and warm he is! - Not so cool right? - TIP

True! It's not cool! Too much sentimentalism and doggy mesmerized eyes makes you appear weak which is a sexual attraction killer. Here a...

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How to keep my cool with the first guy I date after a break up - TIP

True! Going to a first date when you didn't do that for a long time can be quite disabling! Especially if your feel deeply triggered and...

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Talking to my ex feels now a bit shallow - Is that normal? - TIP

Yes, it's normal. Don't be afraid to be shallow. That's the way to go You don't have to reinvent your life ...

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I totally lost trust in marriage - What do you think? - TIP

Marriage is beautiful! It does work for many! Simply think twice before you commit. People often marry too early because they are afraid of ...

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Slowly and no sex at first when dating new men? - TIP

Yes, slowly, no commitment is better in the beginning. Why? Because when your ex leaves, you might try to fill this void in a rebound way wh...

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My ex doesn't want to hear about my new love life - What should we talk about if we meet? - TIP

Simple! Talk about anything else! You don't have to force your love life on him. But don't let his emotional reactions stop you when...

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He says he wouldn't like it if I was dating someone new straight away - Should I try to protect his feelings or not be bothered? - TIP

You're kidding, right?!! He dumped you! He thought of himself first when taking that step! Did he care about how THAT would make YOU fee...

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He says he wants to be friends but only sent me one text message in 2 weeks! - What kind of friendship is that?!! - TIP

He might say he wants to stay friends but then doesn't act accordingly. Look at his actions, rather than what he says. His actions speak...

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Should I check on him to make sure he is all right? - TIP

Not your responsibility! Nothing new will come from the connection you have with him right now. Your relationship is still in the dissolutio...

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I know he loved me - How could he change so fast? - I don't get it? - TIP

Feelings can change very quickly. It's just human nature. The fluidity of human feelings is beautiful but doesn't give you the secur...

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I still feel guilty about seeing other men - How can I shift that? - TIP

ABOUT REFRAMING GUILT... In break up cases, it's not like you are doing something wrong. You are free! You are dating new men. In this c...

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I would like to stay friends with my ex - Is that even possible? - TIP

If you already are in good terms and deeply respect each other, I am sure it can work. Test the waters and find out what you can share and w...

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He says he's not yet dating and that the profiles he set up on dating sites are just for information - TIP

Looking for information on dating sites?? Yeah right!.. There is a turn on and excitement behind his new found dating life. It's like a ...

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He wants to be friends - Should I tell him about the new men I date? - TIP

For the time being you can set up new boundaries between the two of you. Maybe she DOESN'T want to hear about your love life. You don...

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I still live with my ex and feel guilty about dating other men - TIP

If you are still under the same roof and especially if you are helping him with moving on with his life, it's normal to feel a bit guilt...

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How to keep my cool with the first girl I date after a break up - TIP

True! Going to a first date when you didn't do that for a long time can be quite disabling! Especially if your feel deeply triggered and...

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How to stay cool at a first date - TIP

Focus your mind on a few things - It's like you psych yourself up! Here is what you want to keep in mind: Be super confident - That'...

Read More

First date! - My mind goes blank! - I'm thinking how beautiful and warm she is! - Not so cool right? - TIP

True! It's not cool! Too much sentimentalism and doggy mesmerized eyes makes you appear weak which is a sexual attraction killer. Here a...

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First girl you date after your break up

True! Going to a first date when you didn't do that for a long time can be quite disabling! Especially if your feel deeply triggere...

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Talking to my ex feels shallow

Yes, it's normal. Don't be afraid to be shallow. That's the way to go You don't have to reinvent your life with her o...

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I TOTALLY LOST TRUST IN MARRIAGE

Marriage is beautiful! It does work for many! Simply think twice before you commit. People often marry too early because they are afrai...

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Slowly and no sex at first when dating new women

Yes, slowly, no commitment is better in the beginning. Why? Because when your ex leaves, you might try to fill this void in a rebound w...

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Stay free and go slowly into sex when dating new women

Yes, going slow with no commitment is better in the beginning after recovering from break up Why? Because when your ex leaves, you migh...

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My ex doesn't want to hear about my new lover

Simple! Talk about anything else! You don't have to force your love life on her. But don't let her emotional reactions stop y...

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She doesn't want me to date someone new straight away

You're kidding, right?!! She dumped you! She thought of herself first when taking that step! Did she care about how THAT would ma...

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My ex wants to be friends but only sent me one text message in 2 weeks!

She might say she wants to stay friends but then doesn't act accordingly. Look at her actions, rather than what she says. Her actions...

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Should I check on her to make sure she is all right?

Not your responsibility! Nothing new will come from the connection you have with her right now. Your relationship is still in the disso...

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We just broke up - Should I check on my ex to make sure she is all right? - TIP

Not your responsibility! Nothing new will come from the connection with your ex. Your relationship is still in the dissolution process. Espe...

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I know she loved me - How could she change so fast?

Feelings can change very quickly. It's just human nature. The fluidity of human feelings is beautiful but doesn't give you the ...

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SHE SAID SHE LOVED ME

Feelings can change very quickly. This is confusing. We think that feelings are permanent but they are not. Your girlfriend or wife m...

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I feel guilty about seeing other women

ABOUT REFRAMING GUILT... In break up cases, it's not like you are doing something wrong. You are free! You are dating new women. ...

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I would like to stay friends with my ex - Is that even possible? - TIP

If you already are in good terms and deeply respect each other, I am sure it can work. Test the waters and find out what you can share and w...

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She says she's not yet dating and that the profiles she set up on dating sites are just for information - TIP

Looking for information on dating sites?? Yeah right!.. There is a turn on and excitement behind her new found dating life. It's like a ...

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She wants to be friends - Should I tell her about the new women I date? - TIP

For the time being you can set up new boundaries between the two of you. Maybe she DOESN'T want to hear about your love life. You don...

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My ex wants to be friends - Should I tell her about the new women I date? - TIP

For the time being you can set up new boundaries between the two of you. Maybe she DOESN'T want to hear about your love life. You don...

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I still live with my ex and feel guilty about dating other women - TIP

If you are still under the same roof and especially if you are helping her with moving on with her life, it's normal to feel a bit guilt...

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How long should you mourn a broken relationship? - TIP

30 days! Give yourself 30 days to find all the answers you need and let go of your ex! Before you can move on, you usually need to know why ...

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How long should you mourn a broken relationship? - TIP

30 days! Give yourself 30 days to find all the answers you need and let go of your ex! Before you can move on, you usually need to know why ...

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How can you get your power back after a break up? - TIP

Refocus your energy! Start light dating after the first 2-3 weeks! Gain back control over your personal foundation! For instance if you were...

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How can you get your power back after a break up? - TIP

Refocus your energy! Start light dating after the first 2-3 weeks! Gain back control over your personal foundation! For instance if you were...

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What's the best way to get over a break up? - TIP

The first most essential strategy is damage control. There are 3 essential areas you need to protect when a break up hits you: your career, ...

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What's the best way to get over a break up? - TIP

The first most essential strategy is damage control. There are 3 essential areas you need to protect when a break up hits you: your career, ...

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WHY ARE BREAKUPS SO HARD?

Both women and men get often hit really hard by a break up. Why is that? Because the vision they had for their lives suddenly collapses...

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Why do people take break ups so hard? - TIP

Both women and men get often hit really hard by a break up - Why is that? Because the vision they had for their lives suddenly collapses. Im...

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What's her point??? Why does she harass you? - ARTICLE

It’s stunning to see that your ex will harass you shamelessly. They will contact you when you are trying to move on and are just dating...

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Why does she still come after you? - ARTICLE

It’s stunning to see that your ex will harass you shamelessly. They will contact you when you are trying to move on and are just dating...

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What’s their point??? - ARTICLE

It’s stunning to see that your ex will harass you shamelessly. They will contact you when you are trying to move on and are just dating some...

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She brings your kids late or systematically shift arrangements - ARTICLE

That’s one tactic so many exes use! They drive you emotionally up the wall by shifting appointments, not showing up on time, cancelling l...

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She brings your kids late or systematically shifts arrangements - ARTICLE

That’s one tactic so many exes use! They drive you emotionally up the wall by shifting appointments, not showing up on time, cancelling last...

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They bring your kids late or systematically shift arrangements - ARTICLE

That’s one tactic so many exes use! They drive you emotionally up the wall by shifting appointments, not showing up on time, cancelling last...

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