"While my now wife and I were dating, she went out to dinner, the lake and back to another guys house while I was working out of town for the weekend. She told me because she ran into my room mate while she was out. She says the would have told me anyway but who knows. She swears nothing happened but she also still contends she did nothing wrong. Now 20 years later I have trust issues with her.
I don't think she has ever "cheated" but her idea of wrong and mine are different or at least they were 20 years ago.
Should I forget about the old incident or should it still be a basis for my lack of trust. Help!!"
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