How to be with a guy without losing myself - Emotional independence - Stay in charge of your life! - Engage one step at a time - Romantic drema and reality - I dont want to be so dependent on my boyfriend - I need more freedom - Emotional independence - yes! It is a good idea - Body! - career! - Social life! - Consciously build up these - Positive impact on your relationship - Less needy, demanding or insecure - You bring more in the relationship