Hi,
Go beyond your comfort zone. Take risks. Do things you never did before.
It's very simple: if you want more, you have to do more. Gaining skills in the dating scene means taking action. Doubting comes from fear of rejection, insecurity about the outcome. This freezes your moves and stops you from acting. The moment you stop acting, you stop learning.
The dating scene is a school of life. If you want results you have to invest what it takes to be successful.
Get a man? How many actions did you take in the last month which were oriented towards that goal? What was the outcome?
The idea is to take more actions. Multiply what you do by 10 and within a month, you'll be dating someone you like.
What actions? You are on the net right? This is the first place you can start: dating sites are a training ground. They show you what men like and don't like, who they are, what they are looking for. Gaining confidence on the net gives you a boost of energy and develops in you essential communication skills.
Right now, take a white page and write down 10 simple things you can do about your dating. Don't think just write them down, whether you believe you can do them or not.
Of course, love and passion are the centre of the dating world. Desire, excitement are you emotional fuel. They are the fire which motivates your actions.
Dating skills are the other side of the story, the part which is usually missing in the dating world and tends to freeze people's situations.
What stops action? Doubts, fears, negative past experiences, lack of energy, lack of ideas, lack of strategy, etc.
All resistances can be cleared! It's a matter of understanding what is happening inside yourself.
It's very simple: if you want a man, you have to take action! Action is what makes the difference! Take action regularly. Do at least 10 things every week which bring you closer to your goal!
so here it is to summarize:
Write down 10 actions you could be taking within a week
If you can't start, find out what is the resistance
Take action. One step at a time!
Enjoy!