How do I overcome a life long problem with feeling like I cannot learn, when all other indicators would point to the fact that I am at least of average intelligence?
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I am not sure what the problem is... You have a problem because you cannot learn or because of other people thinking that of you?
Learning is a mental ability. This ability is only one amongst other life skills which can make you happy. Other abilities are your emotional fuel, passion, excitement for life, instincts, intuition, creativity, social skills, etc.
If learning does not flow for you, try focusing on what really flows. You have gifts and natural talents. What are they? focus on these...
Enjoy!