I had sex with a guy about 4 months ago. I have been hanging out with him a lot but not intimately. Not too long ago he asked for another "fling" and I said no. I realized I really like this guy but how do I let him know?
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Hi,
If you said no to him, he'll first get it as a rejection. Tell him simply why you don't feel like having sex again with him. What are your reasons and what do you expect from a connection with him. Are you looking for a steady relationship instead of just flirting?
What is your wish? Find out and tell him so that he can understand
Enjoy!