Making good choices has a lot do with seeing the underlying dynamics and seeing where actions take you.
It is tough to make a choice when you don't have all the information, so the best is of course to gather all the tools you need. You need to own all the key information to make your choice.
Saying "yes" to something always means letting go of something else. It is this conflicting interests zone which gets us hesitant at the crossroad.
To let a choice mature, it is essential to test the waters and take small steps in many directions to see how it feels.
You desire, passion, emotional fuel will do the rest! I'm sure that your instincts have been guiding your steps in your past. This time again, they'll color your spirit and guide your steps. Trust!