Sometimes, you need to give destiny a serious kick. If you feel things are not moving, you need to empower your dating spirit. This means taking definite action.
You can use your determination. It is okay! It is sometimes a useful weapon.
What do you want to kill or destroy? You want to remove whatever stands between you and him.
You can use extra power to get your message through. Sometimes It's all you need to win with dating. It is okay to use it.
Open space and make sure that whatever you are up to is a win-win for you and for him.