You have been in touch with two different men online.
Now they both ask you to meet.
Should you choose for one of them now or should you accept both dates and make up your mind later?
My answer is simple:
Yes! Accept both invitations.
With online dating, there are no guarantees and everyone "networks".
When you go on a first date (and even a few dates) with someone, there is not yet a commitment.
Commitment and exclusiveness come after, once you both agree that you really want to be with each other.
You do 100% the right thing when keeping your options open.
This makes sure that you don't "over invest" too soon.
You stay free!
They stay free!