It happens of course.
You feel like you don’t have time to focus on it right now and your partner is full of burning desire for instance.
What do you do?
How do you solve differences?
It is very simple: dialogue, respect and freedom.
Tantra is a passionate fire.
It is a fire you must learn to tame.
The fact that you feel very inspired to share sex at a given moment does not mean that it must happen.
You can dialogue with the tantric spirit.
You can play with the tantric forces and tame them as well.
You can stimulate them or excite them when you want to and give them some rest if you feel the timing is not right.
What matters is that you are the designer of your tantric sex experience.
Tantric sex is not a set of forms which are imposed on you by force.
It’s actually the total opposite.
You have total freedom to design your tantric experience is whatever way you want.
And so does your tantric sex partner.