Originally, Jealousy is an instinctual response aimed at protecting a relationship.
This is the first goal of your jealousy instinctual response.
However, when you express obsessive jealousy, you are achieving exactly the opposite.
You are destroying your relationship.
Excessive possessiveness is a relationship killer.
There is no way around this.
You must know that when you use control on your partner, you kill her joy and pleasure to be alive.
You destroy your partner’s life.
At the end, she will wish you never got together and even never met.
She will run away and never come back.
You must know this and repeat it to yourself over and over again until you decide to shift your attitude.
If you don’t, consider this your last warning.
I am giving it to you in her name and in the name of your relationship.
Abusing your partner’s freedom is not okay!
It will never be!
Your role in her life is to protect her space and freedom; not to use your power against her.