- 1 person gets reflection from others
- 1 at a time
- Be direct and clear
- Ask follow up questions if the feedback is not clear
- Write down the feed back as a few simple core 1-3 words concepts
- Follow up practices
- Practices to develop these qualities
- Sources of the limiting patterns
- Stalk yourself - observe for 24 hours the way you behave around these core feed back points
- Make sure you leave people alone after their sharing and reflections.
- Give them free time and space to digest the information and work on it in their own time.