One of the core skills is to be able to jump in and out of battle really fast!
Even if you have been in this intense fighting, you must be able to step out of it instantly to jump in peace and harmony.
It means as well choosing when and how you go to conquering mode and when you relax.
Sometimes, you might be in conquering without noticing it.
You might be in a conversation trying to force your opinion on someone else.
If you see an argument starting, it is very easy to go back to peace by saying:
"It looks like we have a different opinion on this topic and that's ok"
"Thank you for being true to your beliefs"
"This is why I enjoy having you in my life"