I know exactly how it feels to have the person you love take distance from you.
Many men I know stay in emotional pain and turmoil for far too long, waiting for a miraculous hand to take them out of this situation.
It is your life and you are the one in charge.
Wanting to recover fast is natural and healthy.
You don't have to punish yourself, her or your relationship.
Staying in the "break up space" attracts negative attention for a while. After that, even your friends tend to give up.
It does not need to be that way.
You can fight your battle and do what it takes to get your power back in no time.
What does it take? A real awareness shift!
You need to realize that your life is under attack.
You want to tap into your survival skills and defend your territory.
These survival skills are instinctual.
They are part of your being and you need to wake them up.
The moment you do, you tap into emergency resources and wake up a new set or power in your being.
This is your life. Don't waste months or years staying in an emotional no man's land.
Sure, share and mourn for a few days. Take a week to digest and then, start looking into your future.
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http://vitalcoaching.com/breakupformen.htm
To your power!
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