Ask yourself:
"What is the key quality or skill I need to develop this evening?"
Identify it and focus on that one as a guide line.
For instance:
"Practice being the most important person in the room"
That could be your target for the evening.
Make sure that women perceive you that way and everything you do must reflect that role.
Resistances to play that role?
What if you are with friends and you all have the same target (being the most important person in the room?) - Can it still work? - of course it can!
Any guys who play that role increases his level of attraction because he positions himself as the leader of men.
yes! You can have many leaders in a room.
And no, you don't need to put others down to play that role!