To be successful, you have to play the game. It's all a game anyway, so go ahead and have fun.
What is this game? It is the flirting game! 90% of guys want first to have fun when on the dating scene. They want to spend time with people who are fun to be with, so no hang ups.
Playing the game is giving people what they want! Sure it's great to accept yourself the way you are but you can do better. You can be better. Your present limits are not your real limits. So, go beyond and reach beyond your present comfort zone to establish a new rhythm and freshness in your life. Raise your standards!
Here are the greatest turn offs for guys: difficult person, self absorbed, sad, melancholic, distant, worried, or unstable. If you want to be successful, express exactly the opposite qualities: easy going, generous, happy, joyful, warm, balanced.
Guys fall for women who look and feel free! They respond to life force, to radiance, to excitement, to emotional fuel.
Become incredibly attractive to yourself by being a problem free zone! To be successful, simply let go of what is not attractive in you. Stop doing what is bad for you. Simplify everything.
Guys will be magnetized to you when you are a life model they want to follow. Express their deepest dreams. Express their deepest desire and they'll simply be attracted to your presence.
Dare! Take risks! Be ready to respond to situations! Be spontaneous! Trust! Enjoy the magic of the moment.
Being successful is first a gift you give to yourself.