The first step you want to take is to identify the challenging areas in your relationship.
Here is a list of possible topics:
· Fights
· Sex and intimacy
· Communication with your partner
· Understanding him
· Jealousy issues
· Lack of romance, love or passion
· Life dissatisfaction
· Midlife crisis
· Lack of purpose or vision for your relationship
· Cheating or infidelity
· Household issues
· Children’s education
· Addictions or life style issues
Check this list and mark the ones you feel are an issue.
Take the three most challenging ones.
In the coming month, decide to find a solution for these.
When you break down a challenge into very specific areas, you actually reduce the problem to its real size.
This is the first step.