You don't know where she comes from!
You don't know her history!
You don't know about the possible challenges, abuses or traumas she went through!
She might be in deep pain!
Maybe the expression of her shadows is her best shot at surviving her challenges.
Maybe these defence tactics kept her alive in the past.
Expand your tolerance and compassion.
Before you are harsh with criticism of her female nature, take a moment, breathe deep, see who she is!
Really see her!
See her spirit, the vastness of her being!
See her beauty, her essence, her dignity!
See life force flowing through her being, the miracle of her incarnation!
Love! Accept! See her!