Here are two simple qualities you want to manifest in your couple:
Freedom + Change
One key cause of couples breaking up is feeling limited in their relationship.
When you fight, argue or are unhappy, the key issue is power and control.
You want it your way.
They want it their way.
These two visions clash.
If you clash one time, you fight.
If you clash all the time, you end up with a break up or divorce.
If you realize this early, you can shift this basic dynamic and establish a whole new mind set:
Give each other space, always!
Controlling each other is a relationship killer.
So, this is the first winning mind set: space and freedom.
The second mind set is change and renewal.
Why is it so important?
Because you need to keep on evolving, always.
If you feel crystallized in a situation which stops moving forward, evolution forces will always find a way to reach you”.
Your couple will be challenged until "fresh energies manage to get in".
If you embrace change, you keep on evolving.
Here is a basic conflict of interests:
A part of you needs emotional and material security, while another part wants thrill and change.
To manifest renewal in your couple, you take more risks and step beyond the limits of what you already know.
The moment you embrace the new, you invite fresh energies in your couple.