Sometimes, you have spontaneous events that take place over a few hours or a week end.
It is with a couple or small group.
You might spend a whole week end in activation mode, wild sex, conversation, exploration, play and many more experimental forms.
Depending on the participants, the level of experience, maturity, location, timing, the event might rise to extreme powerful levels of intensity.
When there is little awareness and understanding, this energy might just turn into an unrefined, raw energy battle.
That's what happens when you are a couple and just have a big fight.
There is fire and shadow potential.
To master such events, you must master quite a few things:
- Flexibility
- Spontaneity
- Simple boundaries
- Commitment to be there
- Sexual skills
- Communication skills
- Openness
- High energy
- Playfulness
- Smartness
- Etc
It is one thing to have a one hour class within a structured short event.
And it is something radically different to be in free flow for 2 days or more with 2 persons or a small group.
In these cases, sex, fire, tantra, high energy, emotional intensity, total presence and dedication, safe and private container are all qualities that were present.