Here are some empowering affirmations you can use when being exposed to female shadows.
These attitudes bring you to staying centered and untouched.
It's not the only tactic of course but it's one that might be useful to stop you from entering in reactive mode:
- I am totally free, absolutely unaffected by any of your behaviors
- I don't respond to any of your triggers or attacks
- I stay centered at all times
- I am totally connected to my kali power
- I need nothing from you
- Etc.