Right now this is part of my list of favorites!
Many of these are mature behaviors and emotional responses that take a while to practice and embody, especially when she blasts you with unexpected attacks.
Hope some this is already embedded in your DNA:
- VALIDATE HER
- STAY PRESENT
- BE RESPONSIVE
- BE IN INTEGRITY
- RESPECT
- OFFER SPACE WHEN ASKED TO
- HONOR
- EMPOWER
- ENERGIZE
- PRACTICE VITAL TRUTH
- BE EMOTIONALLY MATURE
- SHOW VULNERABILITY NOW AND THEN
- SHOW YOUR POWER
- CLAIM WHEN APPROPRIATE
- BE COMFORTABLE WITH HER DISCOMFORTS, PAINS, PROCESSES, EMOTIONS
- BE OK WITH HER SHADOWS
- GIVE HER CHALLENGING FEEDBACK ONLY WHEN SHE GIVES YOU PERMISSION TO
- BE A SAFE MAN TO BE AROUND
- SHOW CARE AND AFFECTION
- MASTER YOUR SEXUAL ENERGY
- BE A POWERFUL AND TALENTED LOVER
- USE HUMOR SOMETIMES
- TEASE HER
- CARE FOR HER WORLD
- BE SENSITIVE TO HER PAINS, FEARS, INSECURITIES
- OPEN SPACE AROUND HER
- FREE HER
- EXPAND HER CONSCIOUSNESS
- BE FUN TO BE AROUND
- BE CREATIVE
- BE REAL
- BE MASTER OF YOUR OWN SHADOWS
- GIVE HER SPACE TO BE HERSELF
- GIVE HER BOUNDARIES WHEN SHE CROSSES THE LINE "PAUSE"
- DIRECT HER WHEN IT IS APPROPRIATE
- MAKE DECISIONS FOR THE TWO OF YOU - THAT'S SOMETIMES, NOT ALL THE TIME
- BE OK WITH BEING GUIDED BY HER
- LET HER SOMETIMES GUIDE YOU
- LET HER SOMETIMES TAKE CONTROL
- STAY FREE - DON'T LET HER MICROMANAGE YOU
- GIVE HER SPACE TO RELAX IF SHE SAYS SHE'S TIRED OR NEEDS TO CHILL
- RESPECT HER BOUNDARIES
- STAY CONNECTED WITH YOURSELF, YOUR OWN DESTINY LINE
- HAVE AMBITIONS! HAVE PLANS FIR YOUR FUTURE
- HAVE YOUR SHIT TOGETHER
- MASTER YOUR MONEY
- ACKNOWLEDGE THE INVISIBLE
- BE A LEADER WHEN YOU HAVE TO
- HAVE A TRIBE
- EXPRESS YOUR POWER
- GIVE BACK, RECIPROCATE WHEN YOU RECEIVE SOMETHING
- VOICE IT WITH AWARENESS WHEN IT'S APPROPRIATE AND TIMING IS RIGHT
- COMMUNICATE CLEANLY
- LISTEN AND RESPOND TO HER NEEDS
- LISTEN TO AND RESPOND TO YOUR NEEDS
- WHAT IS YOUR TRUTH? BE REAL
- CREATE PHYSICAL, EMOTIONAL AND ENERGETIC SAFETY FOR HER
- HAVE AN EDGE TO YOU
- RECOVER YOUR POWER FAST IF SOMETHING HITS YOU
- EXPAND HER
- STAY CONNECTED
- BE RELIABLE
- BE IN INTEGRITY
- BE SUPPORTIVE
- COMMUNICATE CLEARLY
- BE DIRECT, REAL, AUTHENTIC IN YOUR COMMUNICATION
- BE SEXUALLY CONFIDENT
- PRACTICE PRESENCE
- BE CREATIVE WITH YOUR DATES
- SHOW APPRECIATION
- LISTEN
- BE SENSITIVE TO HER NEEDS
- BE FLEXIBLE
- BE HUMAN
- KEEP EVOLVING
- BE YOUR BEST
- DON'T TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR HER SHADOWS OR HER TRIGGERS
- VOICE AND EXPRESS YOUR BOUNDARIES - IF YOU DON'T OWN YOUR BOUNDARIES AND DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT THEY ARE, HOW DO YOU EXPECT HER TO RESPECT THEM?
Questions for you:
Which of these attitudes do you practice already?
Are you fully embodying them or does she still destabilize you here and there?
Which positive response is your favorite?
Does it always work or are there situations where it will be uneffective?
What else do you practice that is not on this list?